I have been the one with the bad boy and it was a nightmare, so I really thank those people who did get involved.I was in a weird bubble of a relationship, but one friend in particular was honest and very strong and told me to get the hell out.There are certain things that are a given: you have to remember birthdays; take their call at midnight, and lend them money for a taxi home and never ask for it back.fearne Time is the biggest thing you can give a friend – time spent listening to them and being relaxed with them. We have both lost count of the times we have been dumped, ditched, dropped or ignored by our nearest and dearest.Sometimes it’s genuinely our fault – a tactless comment here, or letting someone down. But good friends are hard to come by, so we try to hold on to them, as hard as we can…Always try to make amends if you’ve messed up.Her life is just so settled and sorted with her husband, her baby and her plumped cushions. Under the plumped cushions there’s always a crushed packet of biscuits and the cork from last night’s wine.
’ And the other part of you worries that, if you do, you’re the one who will end up left out in the cold.
We were at the same stage in our lives, we were both presenting children’s TV and we were excited about our careers. There’s not one particular moment when it starts to work; you just find that you fit together.
Holly Sarah Cawood, a fellow TV presenter, introduced us at CBBC, and we spent the next two years in each other’s pockets. Your interests may be different but the same things make you laugh and cry.
With your head up, you aim for the horizon, your bags packed, and you don’t check in with your mates, you don’t return their calls and when you do you don’t really listen to what they are saying.
Often it’s the stuff that remains unsaid that’s the most important of all.