This is especially likely to happen if that guy had experienced great and exciting sex in the past with you or with some other woman, and he is looking for an equally good experience today.
It is ironic, but if the guy only gets sexual satisfaction from a woman and he is not stimulated by her in any other way, he is probably going to be seeking an affair as well, because he knows that sexual experience that doesn’t transcend physical connection cannot match physical intimacy that’s couple with great mental connection.
Nothing will replace the excitement of, and the satisfaction from, having new experiences with new female partners, and it would be pointless to try to change such a guy.
This desire for novelty and variety of dating and sexual partners is particularly strong among divorced men who come out of a long (unhappy / sexless) marriage.
Playing the field now is of course easier than than ever before with the emergency of overwhelming popularity of online dating, which makes it all the more tempting to date and sleep with tons of people.There is more to that drive than just trying to get laid.The desire to be liked and attract women is one of the most significant ways through which men are able to validate their masculinity and sense of self worth.The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.Sure you have those once in a million times where the man actually leaves his wife for another, but for the most part, it is a script for adultery disaster.